Do you ever feel like giving up?

Giving up, never! Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, she became ..a Butterfly! She was like ..Never! I want those pretty wings! That’s the zeal you need when you feel like giving up!

Life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance, your have to keep moving, keep pedaling & keep trying. Our attitude toward life really does determine Life’s attitude toward us. People who feel “Lucky” ARE Lucky, People who feel they are “Not Lucky” tends to give up easily.

Life is worth living Only and Precisely because of what you are willing to put into it. If you wake up with a down spirit for a day, you tends to feel down “I don’t know if you have experienced that before” Any time you wake up with a bad energy, or feel like really down, you need a positive to help lights up your mood and day. Wake up every morning and have the deal of not giving up. Every morning when you wake up you make a decision.. either conscious or unconscious about how you will feel today. What did you decide today? Why did you decide that life was going to suck again today? Why do you accept defeat so easily?
You only get what you are willing to fight for. Do you WANT TO be happier?
ONLY YOU can make it happen. You have to FIND your happiness. It’s not going to knock on your door, it’s not going to jump on you when you pass an ally or in the park, you have to go out, actively seek and find it! Grab it and bring it home with you! You have to decide what “Matters” and what doesn’t. What makes you happy ( do more of that! ) and what Makes you miserable ( stop that! ) Getting Light up, being positive, having the deal of we try again today!

Most time, we go through life differently and we react different to life challenges but what works for me might not for you, So, I simply don’t know where to turn, but, nahh, quit never! Probably things will come together and I will finally thrive here. Maybe they’re about to change.
Life might happens to you real quick, it might be the moment you thought to give up, that might likely be that you were a step closer to your success, you can never tell. Life is about struggling and fighting for each day.
Life is about change and it’s just too precious to quit. Find the willpower inside you, who knows what tomorrow will bring…I felt like giving up when the things I am passionate about were not working out the way I expected. Let me illustrate, I was thinking for a long while to have some kind of organization or a group where people meet, discuss ideas, express thoughts and learn. I thought to myself: “That’s such a cool idea. Would people like it? ” The thing is that it takes time to change people’s perspective and it doesn’t meant that the idea is bad, it means maybe you need to change the approach that you are taking. It is still developing. But I am not giving up on it, I am going to work more as I do believe in my idea and the purpose behind it.

Another similar instance was when I and my guy felt like giving up when we were training last week at the gym. It is winter and My muscles are sleepy and my body is a bit lazy. When I was training last week, I felt like I can’t. I was about to give up and leave the training, but I told to myself: “Yes, you can! You can do it! You are stronger!” and I continued. I could. It was a small victory. In fact, the first 15 minutes of intensive workout are the hardest, then 30 and then, I am even ready to conquer the world Joking of course, but after I overcome the critical moment “about to give up”, all my “I can’t” then I always get a feeling of small achievement and satisfaction.

Another example was when I felt like giving up when I wanted to start writing and creating the blog, i felt like what did i want to post, I’m not a very good writing, i was looking for way to die the dream of me creating a blog, I just woke up one day and i got that positive and not giving up zeal. I made my research which “i am still doing” or better to say I’m still learning something new regarding the blog. When I was learning the “Blogging Basics” how to post, add pictures, formatting, structuring the text…All of this felt too much! Was too complicate and overwhelming. I thought to myself: “Ohh, it is so tiring…I don’t know, how can do it!” Then I started exploring more and more every day and was doing baby steps…and you know what? All that things became less complicated and even were super useful and easier than i thought! Now I can’t imagine myself not writing or blogging! It became a part of my self-concept.

That’s the spirit of not giving up on your dream and purpose. The thing that I noticed is that the very moment when you are about to give up is the hardest and the most important time. Once you overcome this critical moment, you achieve your dream. Achievements make you confident. Confident in yourself and confident that you can!