Is Life Generally Fair?

I want each and everyone of us to reflect about life generally being fair or not. What do you think? Kindly share your thoughts.

Most people who actually think that life is fair they will probably suffer in life. On the other hand people who have accepted that life isn’t fair they adapt more easy in life changes than others do. We often assume life is fair to some and unfair to others. However, I have a different perspective: as long as you’re alive, healthy, and breathing, life is fair to you, regardless of your circumstances. Life is full of unpredictable surprises – some good, some tough. Life is a bundle of unpredicted surprises , some good and some really tough..

I heard a saying: “Life is so unfair that we are being brought to this life without our consent, and as well die without death asking for our permission before taking us way” while most people can relate to this, some can’t.  A lot of people complain about life unfairness and how things went bad in their life. Life wasn’t meant to be that, you just have to embrace it.  Life is supposed to be fair with you because you’re a good person or because you work so hard, fine! Life has its own rules and its complicated, Life is good to some and life isn’t good to some. Every of our life moment is a like a bundle of unpredictable surprises, some good and some really tough.

There was a video i watched on TikTok recently which also crossed my mind most time, the lady said once you solve one problem, another double problem will show up and its looking like we will always have a problem to solve. I breathe in and out, I went into a deeper thought and adhere to it. We as human we should know that we tend to experience life differently. Everyone here is a victim of life unfairness. I wondered sometimes if i can change a situation of a person or take their problems away but the truth is i can’t because i am also a victim.

Have you ever wondered why people died? why people suffer? why bad things happen to good people? why everyone around you seems to succeed why you fail? why you can’t get the job/position/things you love or want? why you have that sickness? I know we would have asked our selves questions like this but you know what? that’s life and we have to move on instead of asking questions about things, just accept and move on.

Everyone in this life has a place they stand. You need to fight for yours. Don’t ever compare yourself. We as a  person, the moment we start dwelling in the thought that life should be fair to you, it would lead to depression. Life is unfair, No one can get everything they want to get. You can’t go through life without facing one or two things.  So, life is unfair doesn’t mean you should give up on your dream and yourself.

Don’t compare yourself with someone else, you don’t know what the other person is facing or face before getting to that point because everyone goes through struggles in life-it’s unavoidable. Face challenges head-on, and remember, everyone struggles. Just make sure you’re living even when life is fair and unfair. Believing and trusting God to make all things work well.